Saturday, November 23, 2024

the rights of the sons and daughters for their parents

 31:14) We *22 enjoined upon man to be dutiful to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning lasted two years. *23 (We, therefore, enjoined upon him): 'Give thanks to Me and to your parents. To Me is your ultimate return.

*22) The whole passage from lure to the end of the paragraph is a parenthesis, which AIIah has inserted as a further explanation of the saying of Luqman.
*23) From these words, Imam Shafe'i, Imam Ahmad, Imam Abu Yusuf. and Imam Muhammad have drawn the conclusion that the suckling period of the child is two years. If a child has been suckled by a woman within this period, they will be forbidden for each other, but if outside and beyond this period, they will not be so. A saying of Imam Malik also supports this. But Imam Abu Hanifah has proposed the period of two and a half years as a precaution, and has added that it' the child has been weaned after two years, or even earlier, and it is no longer dependent upon suckling for its food, no woman would be forbidden for him If she gave him suck after that period, However, if the real food of the child is still milk. suckling during the period will render him and her forbidden for each other in spite of his eating the other food in a more or less quantity. For, the verse does not mean that the child should be suckled necessarily for two years. In Surah AI Baqarah it has been said: 'The mothers shall suckle their children for two whole years, if the fathers desire the suckling to be completed." 
(v. 233). Ibn 'Abbas from these words has concluded, and other scholars have agreed with him in this, that the shortest period of pregnancy is six months, for the Qur'an at another place says: "His bearing (ita the womb) and his weaning took thirty months." (Ahqaf: 15) This is an important legal point which helps resolve many disputes concerning legitimate and illegitimate births.

surat “31 verse 14”
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ووصينا الإنسان بوالديه حملته أمه وهنا على وهن وفصاله في عامين أن اشكر لي ولوالديك إلي المصير
القول في تأويل قوله تعالى : وَوَصَّيْنَا الإِنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلَى وَهْنٍ وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عَامَيْنِ أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ إِلَيَّ الْمَصِيرُ (14) يقول تعالى ذكره: وأمرنا الإنسان ببرّ والديه (حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلى وَهْنٍ) يقول: ضعفا على ضعف، وشدّة على شدّة، ومنه قول زهير: فَلَــنْ يَقُولُـوا بِحَـبْلٍ وَاهِـنٍ خَـلَقٍ لَـوْ كـانَ قَـوْمُكَ فِـي أسْـبابِه هَلَكُوا (1) وبنحو الذي قلنا في ذلك قال أهل التأويل، غير أنهم اختلفوا في المعني بذلك، فقال بعضهم: عنى به الحمل. * ذكر من قال ذلك: حدثني محمد بن سعد، قال: ثني أبي، قال: ثني عمي، قال: ثني أبي، عن أبيه، عن ابن عباس قوله: ( وَوَصَّيْنَا الإنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلَى وَهْنٍ ) يقول: شدّة بعد شدّة، وخلقا بعد خلق. حُدثت عن الحسين، قال: سمعت أبا معاذ يقول: أخبرنا عبيد، قال: سمعت الضحاك يقول في قوله: (وَهْنًا عَلى وَهْنٍ) يقول: ضعفا على ضعف. حدثنا بشر، قال: ثنا يزيد، قال: ثنا سعيد، عن قَتادة قوله: (حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلى وَهْنٍ) أي جهدا على جهد. وقال آخرون: بل عنى به: وهن الولد وضعفه على ضعف الأمّ. * ذكر من قال ذلك: حدثني محمد بن عمرو، قال: ثنا أبو عاصم، قال: ثنا عيسى، وحدثني الحارث، قال: ثنا الحسن، قال ثنا ورقاء، جميعا عن ابن أبي نجيح، عن مجاهد (وَهْنًا عًلى وَهْنٍ) قال: وهن الولد على وهن الوالدة وضعفها. وقوله: (وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عامَيْنِ) يقول: وفطامه في انقضاء عامين. وقيل: (وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عامَيْنِ) وترك ذكر انقضاء اكتفاء بدلالة الكلام عليه، كما قيل: وَاسْأَلِ الْقَرْيَةَ الَّتِي كُنَّا فِيهَا يراد به أهل القرية. وقوله: (أن اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ) يقول: وعهدنا إليه أن اشكر لي على نعمي عليك، ولوالديك تربيتهما إياك، وعلاجهما فيك ما عالجا من المشقة حتى استحكم قواك. وقوله: (إليَّ المَصِيرُ) يقول: إلى الله مصيرك أيها الإنسان، وهو سائلك عما كان من شكرك له على نعمه عليك، وعما كان من شكرك لوالديك، وبرّك بهما على ما لقيا منك من العناء والمشقة في حال طفوليتك وصباك، وما اصطنعا إليك في برّهما بك، وتحننهما عليك. وذُكر أن هذه الآية نـزلت في شأن سعد بن أبي وقاص وأمه. ذكر الرواية الواردة في ذلك: حدثنا هناد بن السريّ، قال: ثنا أبو الأحوص، عن سماك بن حرب، عن مصعب بن سعد، قال: حلفت أمّ سعد أن لا تأكل ولا تشرب، حتى يتحوّل سعد عن دينه، قال: فأبى عليها، فلم تزل كذلك حتى غشي عليها، قال: فأتاها بنوها فسقوها، قال: فلما أفاقت دعت الله عليه، فنـزلت هذه الآية (وَوَصَّيْنا الإنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ) إلى قوله: فِي الدُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا حدثنا ابن المثنى، قال: ثنا محمد بن جعفر، قال: ثنا شعبة، عن سماك بن حرب، عن مصعب بن سعد، عن أبيه، قال: قالت أمّ سعد لسعد: أليس الله قد أمر بالبرّ، فوالله، لا أطعم طعاما ولا أشرب شرابا حتى أموت أو تكفر، قال: فكانوا إذا أرادوا أن يطعموها شجروا فاها بعصا، ثم أوجروها، فنـزلت هذه الآية (وَوَصَّيْنا الإنسانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ) . حدثنا ابن المثنى، قال: ثنا عبد الأعلى، قال: ثنا داود، عن سماك بن حرب، قال: قال سعد بن مالك: نـزلت فيّ وَإِنْ جَاهَدَاكَ عَلى أَنْ تُشْرِكَ بِي مَا لَيْسَ لَكَ بِهِ عِلْمٌ فَلا تُطِعْهُمَا وَصَاحِبْهُمَا فِي الدُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا قال: لما أسلمت، حلفت أمي لا تأكل طعاما ولا تشرب شرابا، قال: فناشدتها أوّل يوم، فأبت وصبرت، فلما كان اليوم الثاني ناشدتها، فأبت، فلما كان اليوم الثالث ناشدتها فأبت، ف

from all days

from all times

the rule of civilization

makes bad things

it cut the relation

between families

makes us as robots

works without souls

the tales w told

mum was old

the wife of her son

annoyed from her

as she annoyed her

prevented to take her rest

wearing some naked colthes

her hausbandcahing for love

there was mot occurred

as the mother of his husband existed

she ordered him

to let her mum live in older houses

the son prevented

so after times

she ordered him to let her “his mum “

live at the upper room

as the food was getting out of her mouth

when she was eating

and does make her annoyed

and threw her eat

the son dud to satisfy

one day the boy of that son

the grandson took a dish and kept it

at his special case

the father asked his son

why do you keep that dish?

he answered “as when you get older

i will put your food sure

at this plate

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the mother rights on her sons and daughters 1

 وَوَصَّيْنَا الْإِنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلَى وَهْنٍ وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عَامَيْنِ أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ إِلَيَّ الْمَصِيرُ (14)"surat31



A person's life is summarized and its features are formed in his childhood between a man and a woman, a mother and a father, who enjoys their giving, taking their life on the way of his growth, forming a container for him, but a shield of safety. They are family, they are love, they are the fountain of tenderness.

How great is that father, with his hard diligence, tireless and tireless, to make his children happy. He works all day to provide for children. He returns in the evening tired and frowning, as soon as he sees his wife and children, he forgets the hardship and trouble of work, so that the details of his manager's pale face dissipate in front of him, and that gloom involves joy and pleasure to see them. Do you remember standing at his door every day waiting for your morning allowance, or Do you remember that warm hand, your father's affectionate hand walking together to school every day. Do you remember your first gift from him and do you remember how you imitated him once, the day you put on his shoes to imitate him, do you remember his wondrous joy when seeing you do this, do you remember how your companion was when you were young and were you his companion?

How strange is the mother and her might in protecting her children, that tender lady who was commanded by God Almighty and His Holy Messenger Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). She always amazes me with her patience, endurance and skin behind her sons to be great. Mothers They achieved miracles and underwent the impossible, God has praised them around Him, glory be to Him, this is a mother who raised a car in panic on her son and others who sacrificed their lives for the price of their children to live, you may think of the image of the supernatural lady in the comics, but believe me if I tell you that our mothers are greater.

Have you ever wondered what distinguishes them, they are ordinary girls, even normal ladies, they are our daughters and sisters, our aunts, aunts and grandmothers, they are alone until you come and fill their lives with amazing vital energy and change them, O son, from ordinary ladies to mothers who are able, God willing, from the intuition of the future. How many times did your mother warn you about doing that and recommended you to do that, how many times did she warn you about bad company accompanying them, did she tell you that her heart was not reassured by that deal, did she tell you that this girl did not It enters her heart. How many times have you believed her and how many times have you asked for her pardon from those superstitions. How many times have you regretted not listening, how many times have you run to her feet young, how many times have you healed your wounds and put a smile in your heart before your face, how much and how much you have been her companion.



Have you started your search for a lady, remember, that by looking for her you have made the decision to give birth to the mother of your children, or as your mother her children will also grow up, so do you accept their estrangement from her then, do you accept disobedience from them as a father, you will be surprised by your answer. You know, she already knows that. She knows that your big work will take you from her, but she continued your education, she knows that that girl who got engaged to you will take a big share of your heart from her, but she was patient. She knows, God has taught her. She sensed it but she loves you, she loves to see your smiling face, her heart blooms whenever she sees you near her, she wants her satisfaction, she is happy with your talk, even if it is normal, she cries for your pain and is happy for your joy, but it pleases her to be patient with sadness in her heart if that makes you happy.

believe in God

believe in Muhammad

the Islam prophet

obey your parents

obey them in every order

except that it is against your belief

and look after them

do not say a small bad words to them

mother look after you

when youi were young

she wept dirty and she was happy

she pray to God to live thousands

when you became ill

she get awake beside you

and she pray all pain

move to herr

father works to make you happy

get you money to be so funny

when they became older you put in a house

of older persons to live away of their asks

of help of be so nearest

to tell you their memories

but where are you?

Tuesday, August 27, 2024

9 simple ways to be more positive in life




9 simple ways to be more positive in life

How you think determines how you feel. A positive mindset helps you view the challenges in your life with optimism. Research shows that people who think positively have a better quality of life and live longer. It acts as a medicine against stress, fatigue, depression and even viruses. But how do you create a positive attitude?

 

 

These proven techniques will help you become a positive thinker.

 

 1. Be grateful
 
 
If you read our blogs regularly, you've probably come across this tip before. That's because, in our opinion, it simply works well. Gratitude helps you focus on the beautiful things in your life. It provides perspective when you are frustrated, anxious, or sad and helps you enjoy daily happiness.  
 
 
 
Practice gratitude by meditating or keeping a gratitude journal. For example, at the end of the day, write down three things you are grateful for. What went well, what was pleasant, what are you proud of?
 
 
 
 
 
2. Get rid of your negative thoughts
 
 
 
 
Negative thoughts are human. Sometimes they come to you uninvited. In order to give your thoughts a positive turn in such moments, it is important to first observe them. 

3. Be kind to yourself

 

 

 

 

We are often our own worst critics. This is a shame because being hard on yourself is demotivating and can lead to low self-esteem. So in the future, try to limit your self-criticism or give it a positive twist.

 


 

 

Instead of thinking of yourself as lazy or unambitious if you don't complete your to-do list, try speaking positively to yourself: "I didn't get it done today because I had a bad day. That’s fine, I’ll try again tomorrow.”

 

 
 
 

Do you find yourself complaining about work, criticizing others, or focusing on your own mistakes? Then stop and think about these thoughts for a moment. Then think of two positive ways to refute these thoughts. For example: Work isn't fun right now, but better times will come. I also have very nice colleagues with whom I have a lot of fun.
4. Attribute positive events to yourself
 
 
 
 
Has something nice happened in your life? Then attribute the event to your personality or abilities. Optimists tend to see positive events as their own merit, while pessimists tend to attribute them to external factors or coincidences. When you receive positive feedback on a project, remember what contribution you made. No more thoughts like “Oh, that was an easy project”. Choose positive!
 
 
 
 
 
💡 Also read: How to turn stress and anxiety into something positive
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
5. Help others
 
 
This is the best win-win situation in life. When you help others, you're also helping yourself. Whether you donate money to a charity, help a friend move, or help your brother write a job application, you'll immediately feel happier. And a nice side effect: people who are friendly and helpful also live longer.
 
 
 
 
 
6. Celebrate life!
 
 
 
 
Don't wait for your birthday, a promotion, or a marriage proposal to celebrate life. Even the little things are worth celebrating. Did you meet your deadline? Have you been to the gym? Have you completed that tedious task you've been putting off for far too long? Have you seen a beautiful sunset? Take a moment to think and reward yourself with a treat.
 
 
 
Life happens today. So celebrate it today too.
 
 
 
 
 
7. Body first, thoughts will follow
Research shows that laughter reduces stress, anxiety and depression. Laughter also improves mood and is good for self-confidence. So allow yourself to laugh. Even – and perhaps especially – when you find yourself in a difficult situation. Even a forced or “fake” laugh or smile relieves stress and instantly improves your mood. You're fooling your brain, so to speak. Try it.
 
 
 
A positive posture is also helpful: straight back, shoulders back and chin up. A positive posture creates a positive mental attitude. 
 
 
 
 
 
8. Go outside
 
 
 
 
Perhaps the easiest tip to implement. Exercise and fresh air are proven to be good for our mood and help you be an optimistic person.
 
 
 
 
 
9. Escape from the crab pot
 
 
 
 
Do you know the wonderful phenomenon of crabs in a basket? Although they can easily escape, the crabs pull each other down so neither can escape. 
 
 
 
People are the same way sometimes. Do you feel like there are people in your life who bring you down? Then spend more time with people who bring out the best in you. 
 
 
 
Positivity is contagious. Surrounding yourself with positive people will also likely make you feel better and have more confidence. Sometimes this is not possible. For example, if you have a colleague who doesn't bring you much positive energy. Then don't pay too much attention to it, but concentrate on the positive people in the group.
 
 
 
 
 
It doesn't mean burying challenging thoughts
 
 
 
 
Positive thinking doesn't mean you have to bury or hide all your negative thoughts. Sometimes things happen in our lives that are not positive. It's important to allow accompanying emotions, such as sadness or fear, so that you can process them. After all, no one is the sunshine of the house forever. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


 

 

 

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Wednesday, August 21, 2024

The successes reach "3"

The man who believe his manager in his words as a holy word can go to the wrong way or side as the manager is a human body and has some needs that needs may abstract the needs of our hero., thus the result of achieve his needs is the more powerful . The most employee tend to be safe and achieve the needs of their manger .
It is right when it is not legal and not decreases of man honor. The need to get success in case of facing this problem need more patient ,more knowledge and more understanding to the thoughts of the other. The man who tries to improve that he understands everything is actually man who understands nothing.
The manger tries to improve all that he is the only man for this position and try not to make second leader. He is the most unsseccful person.
I.e. the strong well, strong and long patient, good knowledge and strong believe in God make man get over in every negative forces.

the success reaches 4

 In the dusty corner of a forgotten library, a man named Marcus hunched over an ancient scroll, his eyes scanning the faded ink with a desperation that seemed almost palpable. His fingertips, calloused from years of handling such relics, traced the intricate lines of text, hoping to find a glimmer of hope within the stories of those who had come before him. Marcus was a historian by trade, but in his heart, he was a dreamer, always searching for tales of triumph over adversity. His own life had been a series of setbacks and failures, leaving him feeling like a mere shadow in the grand pattern of human achievement.


The room was quiet, save for the occasional sigh that escaped his lips as he turned page after page. The air had the scent of aged parchment and a hint of mustiness that clung to the ancient tomes surrounding him. The candlelight cast eerie shadows that danced upon the towering bookshelves, hinting at secrets and wisdom long lost to the modern world. Marcus felt a kinship with these relics, both of them overlooked and undervalued.


It was on one such evening, as the candle burned low, that he stumbled upon the story of a young boy named Elian. Born into a world of conflict and chaos, Elian had a spirit that was unbreakable despite his frail physique. The scroll spoke of his village being raided by a merciless enemy, leaving only him alive amidst the destruction. With a fierce determination to survive, Elian set out into the wilderness,


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Most of failure persons expose to the feel that they are the lowest persons in that life ,thus their life does not matter for others and as will as for them and so they get back of life and think in die . The think in die is not bad that makes man stop of doing an illegal things like murder stealing or raping. The think of die leads to the will to die.
The inner forces that one does not know can solve this problem and lead him to be more act than his opposite.
Once a student was very weak in English as a language. His master show him to his colleagues as an unsucceful person. He put to him a low degree even he didn't see his answer .he makes him as a joke .the student went to his home wit a bad temper . he told his mom that he wanted to die. The mother didn't said any thing except if you wanted die do it immediately and don't hesitate and leave us facing our poor and bad manner. I consider you as our hero. You will make us get over this bad manner.
The student entered his room and thought of his mother said. He make a strong deal with himself that he studied hard .he entered for study night center and took several courses at this language .as he passed as first student he worked as translators for several centers .At the end of the year ,when the result appear and he got a good mark ,his master didn't believe and ordered to repeat his examination as he was the most fruitless person all university.
the student who left the master with his anger became a master of this branch.
Look at your inner and you will discover a great power


In the dusty corner of a forgotten library, a man named Marcus hunched over an ancient scroll, his eyes scanning the faded ink with a desperation that seemed almost palpable. His fingertips, calloused from years of handling such relics, traced the intricate lines of text, hoping to find a glimmer of hope within the stories of those who had come before him. Marcus was a historian by trade, but in his heart, he was a dreamer, always searching for tales of triumph over adversity. His own life had been a series of setbacks and failures, leaving him feeling like a mere shadow in the grand pattern of human achievement.